Most people buy their first lube the same way they use whatever shampoo the hotel
has. That is, they just grab whatever’s there. But, in fact, the wrong lubricant can turn a
great experience uncomfortable, and the right one quite the opposite!
There's also a myth that needing lube means something is wrong. Not at all! Natural
lubrication changes based on stress, hydration, medications, and hormonal cycles. Our
bodies aren’t perfect, and depending on what you want to do or your mood, different
kinds and amounts of lube can completely change the experience. Beyond comfort, it
reduces friction and lowers the risk of microtears, all good things.
The Three Main Types
1. Water-based lubes are the all-rounders. Compatible with latex condoms, safe
with silicone toys, and the easiest to clean up. The main issue is that they can
dry out during longer sessions and for some people don’t feel as nice. If you have
sensitive skin, look for glycerin-free formulas.
2. Silicone-based lubes last longer, feel silkier, and are waterproof. The catch: they
can degrade silicone toys over time, and they can perform for a while even in the
shower. Unfortunately, cleaning up is a bit trickier, as silicone can stain.
3. Oil-based options give the longest-lasting glide and a luxurious feel. Perfect for
massage and extended sessions. But the big danger is that they break down
latex condoms, so if you're using them, don’t mix them with oil lube!
Our Picks to Get You Started
• https://perfectendings.store/products/intimate-earth-bliss-anal-relaxing-water-based-glide-3-ml-0-10-oz-0-10-oz-foil, $5. The easiest
low-commitment way to try an anal-specific formula. Anal sex doesn’t have a natural
lubricant in the same way vaginal does, so lube really helps.
•https://perfectendings.store/products/goodhead-slick-head-glide-blue-raspberry-4-oz , $14. Flavored, water-based, and
pretty fun. Compatible with toys and condoms.
• https://perfectendings.store/products/elbow-grease-cool-cream-jar-15oz, $44. Same formula as the original with a
cooling menthol twist. A good option if you want to experiment with temperature play.
• https://perfectendings.store/products/earthly-body-edible-massage-oil-succulent-strawberry-8oz, $20.50. Not a traditional
lube, but a great bridge product. Edible, made with hemp seed oil, and works well for
foreplay and sensual massage.
Quick Tips
1. Match lube to the toy. Silicone lube on a silicone toy can damage it, best to use
water-based when possible.
2. Read the ingredients. Sensitive skin? Avoid glycerin, parabens, and artificial
fragrances.
3. Use more than you think you need. Reapply when things start to feel dry
