Ah, winter. It’s the season of twinkling lights, thick blankets, and… wait, what’s that buzzing? Sure, scented candles and cocoa are great and all, but the holidays are also the perfect excuse to do something else under the cozy blankets.
If your bedroom routine is feeling a little more "vanilla" and a little less "gingerbread spice," don't worry, we’ve got you. The cold outside means it's time to turn up the heat. Here’s how to make the most out of the most wonderful time of the year.
Setting the Scene and the "Naughty List" Conversation
Let’s start with the vibes. What a great time of year to overhaul the look and feel of your private spaces.
Introduce a new playlist (think sultry bass, not Jingle Bells), switch to softer, heavier bedding, or introduce a new scent. It seems simple, but engaging your smell, touch, and sight can get you back in the mood. It’s like hitting the "reset" button.
Next, let’s talk! The change of seasons offers a natural pause to ask: “What do we want to leave in the past, and what do we want to bring into the new year?” Let’s check out some options together!
Cozy Picks for the Holidays: Simple yet Satisfying
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Earthly Body Hemp Seed 3-in-1 Massage Candle Holiday Trio: Mistletoe Mischief, Tinsel Tease, Yule Be Begging, $25, Melt into a skin-soft oil infused with festive scents like mistletoe and tinsel. The room is about to be a winter wonderland for intimate massages.
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Naughty List Gift Socks And A Sex Toy 4 in. Multi-Speed Vibe With Storage Bag, $43, Pocket-ready and festive-hued, this holiday vibrator delivers deep, rumbly vibes for a quick and cozy thrill, perfect as a discreet stocking stuffer.
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Strap-On-Me Glow-LED Dildo, $80, ready for some festive lighting? This glowing Dildo and strap-on is the perfect toy for having fun around the holidays. Who wouldn’t want to glow on Christmas Night?
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RITUAL Chi Rechargeable Silicone Clitoral Vibrator (Mint), $72, Silky, quiet, and water-resistant with 10 patterns, this elegant vibe shines for foreplay or during penetration, great for mistletoe moments.
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Eye of Love Romantic Attract Her Pheromone Gift Set, $49, Coming with both a small vial of pheromone parfum and a massage candle, its the perfect gift set for heating things up on a cold winter night.
"Snowed In": A recipe for a perfect night in
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The Pre-Game Pour: Skip the wine and make a fun cocktail together. Whether it’s a spiked eggnog or a peppermint mocha, the act of making a "special drink" signals togetherness and mutual interest.
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The 10-Minute Tease: Put on that new playlist and light the massage candle before you get naked. Let the scent fill the room while you get in the mood.
The Reveal: Introduce something new. It doesn't have to be wild, but it should be exciting. Whether it's that warming lube or an intense new vibrator.
